i just feel that life is unfair. no words can make the other party understand your point. sometimes, its much easier to be in someone else's shoes so that you don't have to explain. though i do agree that you don't mention that you don't take sides but through your acts it shows that you did. i just feel that sometimes your words contradicts your act. i know i only play a pivotal role in your life cuz' your future is in my hands. but don't i have the same rights and freedom as everyone else to determine what i want in my life? you had your chance with your life. quoted from what Ris Low said,

"my life is my life. that's why its called my life. MY LIFE.".